In Memory

Linda Kelly (Van Loozen)

Linda Kelly (Van Loozen)

It is sad to know we have lost another classmate. Linda's sister, Barbara Kelly Okerberg, is Waltrip Class of '65 and she shared this info on Facebook. Linda's husband is Steve. Please keep this family in your thoughts and prayers in the days and weeks to come.  She will be very missed.

Linda Kelly Van Loozen  October 1, 1949 - February 14, 2024 

CELEBRATION OF LIFE - MARCH 8, 2024 1P-4P.  WILL BE ON ZOOM.



FROM (Linda's daughter) KARA CARTER's Facebook post:
For those that don’t know what all my mother went through, I am sharing a bit of her and my dad’s journey. In 2015, my mom was diagnosed with 2 types of blood cancer. We spent months in the hospital with her, taking turns and praying she would heal. My aunt ended up being an exact match for her blood and was able to literally help my mom drain her bad cells out and inject them with my aunts healthy cells. She was a miracle for my mom. I was there the day the transplant happened. I watched as the doctors “ revived” her through the process. She was 80 pounds and took years to recover. She fought so hard. After that, she set out to a real recovery. She became more back to normal after a few years but was never the same again. Her body constantly fought the “foreign” cells and every infection, sickness, tiniest risk to her immune system was a huge deal. Yet she continued to fight. All of this being so hard on on my mom doesn’t touch what my dad was going through. That man is the ultimate definition of true love. He never left her side, gave up everything, paid any price just to make her better. His love for her is unmatched. Mom never made a full recovery.

Back in August (8 years after the transplant) the hospital visits began again. She couldn’t seem to stop fighting infection after infection. Every medicine or treatment they could give her fought against one that was already in her body helping her cells not attack eachother. She hurt, she was sick, she couldn’t eat, she became immobile and she fought.

Mom made it a point that if it was the last thing she did, she was going to be home for Christmas. Those of you that know my mom, know she didn’t take no for an answer. The girls and I were able to spend Christmas at my parents house with them both and she told me every day it was her “ best Christmas ever” my dads strength during this time was amazing to watch, but also so heartbreaking. He continued to give her everything he had. She was his life.

After Christmas, the infections kept coming one after another. She looked at my brothers and I so many times and said, “I am just so tired. When will they stop making me fight so hard?” Our family knew we couldn’t make her keep eating, walking, moving, fighting any longer. She fought for 9 years. 9 years of life she got to live with her kids, grandkids, husband, family, and friends. She was so loved.

She passed on Valentine’s Day after we all made the decision with her wishes that she just couldn’t fight anymore. She died peacefully and without pain. She is no doubtedly “ Dancing in the Sky” . Mom is a believer. She was ready and at peace.

Here is the miracle part. My mom passed away on Valentines Day. She waited til my dad got back to the hospital after not being allowed to spend the night. He was there less than five minutes. She saw him, said his name, and he was able to give her a proper goodbye. He’s at peace. But in addition to this, yesterday was not only Valentine’s Day, but also the birthday of the very aunt who gave my mom 8 extra years of life. The amazing sister that gave my mom her healthy cells. What are the chances? If you don’t believe in a Heaven, I don’t know what other proof you need.

In addition, I need to comment on my father. That man never wavered. He never questioned or complained, or thought it was too much. He is my hero. His heart is pure gold. And if you know my mom, she wasn’t always easy. But she was everything to him and you couldn’t look at him without knowing that was 100% true. His strength and love are two things I hope I can one day touch. My mom’s journey, my dad’s steadfast love. I hope to one day mirror the respect I and so many people have for my parents. I love them and am so thankful I got to witness the meaning of true love. My mom will be missed but we will be ok. She is free of the suffering that has consumed the last years of her life.



 
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02/25/24 06:01 PM #1    

Barbara Lamb (Hendry)

I didn't know Linda Kelly personally, but I couldn't help shed a tear while reading Linda's journey written by her daughter. Linda must have been a strong willed woman and loved so very much by her husband and family.  I know she will be missed by many but they know she is in heaven and they will see her again.  
Barbara Lamb Hendry


02/26/24 11:10 AM #2    

Kathy Lewis (Amen)

I was very sorry to hear of Linda's passing and to learn about the suffering that she and her family have gone through. I remember her well from high school days, she was always cheerful, friendly, and fun to be around. All my sympanthies and condolences to her family, who sound like wonderful people.


02/26/24 03:25 PM #3    

Tina Reid (Rose)

My heart and my prayers go out to the family of Linda's who loved her so much.  This time is so sad and I pray for strength and comfort for all of you.  God is always here for us. With hugs, Tina Reid Rose


02/27/24 10:42 AM #4    

Pamela Roesler (Lemoine)

Linda and I managed to stay in touch, albeit sporadically. We had great fun in Guard, many laughs many years later over high school times, and shared the experience of being single moms in the '70s. In fact, her son, Kyle, and my daughter, Tara, were in preschool together. I have a photo of Linda from a few years ago when the drought was so severe she could stand underneath their boat dock! Linda fought so hard for all the good she had in her life, none of it came easily. And she fought to stay as long as possible with her family. For someone so tiny, she was a warrior. I'll miss our sarcastic messages and her updates on graduations, weddings, births. Her family was so blessed to have her as their anchor. 


02/27/24 02:39 PM #5    

Jane Gaumer (Montgomery)

My sincerest condolences to Linda's family for her loss. I don't remember seeing Linda since high school, but she was always such a fun, happy person. Her daughter's words sound like she was a warrior for many years. Rest in peace, Linda.


02/27/24 04:45 PM #6    

Judi Killian

Linda and I had been good friends since the ninth grade at Black Jr High. We had many great times and laughs. I spoke with her during the onset of her illness and know she was a strong lady and was fighting as hard as her illness would let her. She never waivered from getting well. God Bless her husband Steve and her faithful family for all their love and stro g committment. We have a special angel looking over us. You will be missed.

03/01/24 04:45 AM #7    

Martha Presnall (Hill)

I remember Linda. She was always such a happy, outgoing person. So sorry for her family and friends. I know she is at peace now, praise God. She will always be remembered. Rest easy sister in Christ.


03/02/24 09:06 AM #8    

Marijane Morrison (Eubanks)

Linda was so kind and sweet. Will be praying for her family. It's so hard to say goodbye 

 


03/06/24 05:19 PM #9    

Debbie Ann Young

I have been unable to post since Linda's  passing due the profound  loss I have felt. Linda and I became best friends when we were 12 and in the 7th grade at Black Jr High, all through Waltrip. Although we entered different paths we never lost total touch. I was a shy little girl and Linda was so outgoing and full of life so she challenged me constantly, sometimes even when I strongly objected! She never let me back out of anything!  As a result of her pushing me, I went on to a great career (and 3 failed marriages-haha) and have always felt she deserved credit for helping me have such a great life. Her marriage to Steve was the thing she had been searching for...the love of her life. She loved her family so much and my heart goes out to all of them. I will miss her every day. She was a shining light in my life.


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